Games with Rules – Learning Structure and Cooperation
The Power of Play: How Children Learn Through Four Types of Play

Welcome back to the power of play! So far we have delved into the first two types of play, dramatic and constructive play. Moving from physical properties to constructive capabilities these first two types of play often involve motor skills and problem-solving languages. Now we are going to move on to the next area of play, games with rules.
As early childhood psychologist Sara Smilansky theorised there are four  types of play – Functional Play, Constructive Play, Games with Rules, and Dramatic Play – each foster essential skills and contribute to a well-rounded learning experience for young children. So what do we mean when we talk about games with rules?

What are games with rules?

As children grow, they begin to enjoy games with specific rules. This type of play introduces structure, helping children understand and follow guidelines, take turns, and manage their behavior in a social setting. Games with rules allow children to experience the give-and-take of cooperation, learning how to win and lose gracefully, and respect the rules of the game.

Whether it’s a simple board game, a game of tag, or even Simon Says, games with rules help children practice patience, self-regulation, and teamwork. These are essential social skills that they’ll carry forward into other parts of their lives.

Games with rules in practice

Try playing simple board games like “Candyland” or “Connect Four,” or play active games like “Simon Says” or hide-and-seek. These types of games help children practice following instructions and engaging in fair play. Our core pillar of democracy shines through in our approach to games with rules, a type of play that fosters cooperation, fairness, and mutual respect. Engaging in activities like turn-taking games, group challenges, and shared problem-solving helps children learn to navigate collective decision-making and appreciate different perspectives. These experiences empower children to understand the importance of listening, contributing, and working together toward a common goal. By integrating democratic principles into play, we nurture social skills, responsibility, and a deep respect for others, laying the foundation for strong, collaborative relationships.